Dating Feels Like an Interview With No Job Description
Modern love is messy, confusing, and full of red flags dressed as “potential.”
“Stop performing for people who haven’t done the work to be present.”
Dating these days feels like interviewing for a role with no job description.
You’re out here asking all the right questions, watching their body language, decoding dry “wyd” texts, and trying to figure out if they’re looking for a partner… or just someone to distract them from their own healing.
Too many want relationship benefits with ghost-level effort.
Let’s be real — chemistry isn’t enough anymore.
🟠 Consistency > charm
🟠 Safety > butterflies
🟠 Accountability > promises
We are not entertaining confusion this season.
If you can’t communicate clearly, show up emotionally available, and mean what you say? Then what are we even doing?
You are not “too much.”
You are not “too picky.”
You’ve just outgrown the performance of trying to be enough for someone who isn’t ready to receive you.
That’s not attitude.
That’s self-respect.
Feeling this?
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We’re healing out loud over here.